Tragic acts of terror continue to anger and confuse the world as this spinning ball of love, hate, and 70% water peacefully drifts through space. I’m supposed to somehow transition from that statement into my blog topic with something like, “all this has really got me thinking about social media,” without sounding like an asinine, tactless, first-world asshole, but, as you now know, I couldn’t figure out how. Reading people’s online reactions to such events just always feels a little strange to me. It seems like just saying something has become more important than saying something sincere. While doing a little research before figuring out exactly what to discuss in this blog, I read several articles written by marketing managers describing the best tweets a brand should make following such a tragedy. I’m not accusing certain companies of using these kinds of things to their advantage, but it just unsettles me thinking that an important thought to have after scores of people get slaughtered is, “what should I tweet?”
We all remember responding to the Paris attacks just a few short months ago, writing lengthy posts about love and compassion, offering our opinions on politics and Islam, and changing our profile pictures to show solidarity with France. I didn’t really take part in any of that, and I’m in no way saying doing one thing or the other is wrong or right, I just always feel too confused and stupefied to share anything at all. It seems like every week dozens of innocent lives end suddenly at the hands of some ideological organization. Iraq. Pakistan. Ivory Coast. California. Brussels. All so recent. I don't know if any of you relate to this statement, but sometimes, I just don’t know how to feel. What should I feel? What should I do? I don’t want to say something just because it will make me feel better and help me get on with my life, but I also don’t want to remain silent and feel powerless as horror engulfs our world. As a result, a kind of paralysis sets in, and I observe stoically as body counts rise, fingers are pointed, condolences are offered, and the world awaits its next massacre. None of it makes the least bit of sense. We all carry this knowledge of the immense suffering and cruelty in society, and I, for one, don’t really know how to handle it.
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I apologize if that was bleak; I’ve just never shared my feelings around that subject before, and I’m very interested to hear how you all feel as well.
Now to change tone a bit with a topic that relates to the general idea of what I wrote above. I will discuss recent findings about social media and empathy. A startling study from the University of Michigan in 2010 found that in the thirty years from 1979 to 2009, empathic characteristics of college-aged students dropped by over 30%. The researchers drew no definitive conclusions about the cause of the decline, but speculated that the rise in personal technology use damages interpersonal dynamics. A 2015 study from California State University specifically analyzed the effects of various types of online behavior on empathy. It concluded that going online had an extremely small negative impact on real-world empathy, and, actually correlated with increased face-to-face interaction. One interesting detail, however, notes that for both males and females, subjects scored higher on real-world empathy tests than virtual empathy tests, meaning people feel less compelled to be compassionate online.
Since social media holds such a crucial rule in our generation’s civic engagement, the mentality of online interactions can deeply affect which causes we fight for and which we ignore. For example, strong online empathy manifests itself in the widespread support behind LGBTQ rights. As people gain more and more friends, especially in the less discriminatory manner social media offers than real life, they gain new perspectives into people’s lives. Individuals who may not interact frequently with members of the LGBTQ community might be exposed to their lives online and acquire a new understanding and a deeper compassion.
To interject my own opinion, I think the internet and social media sites have rapidly increased the global information intake we absorb each day. This incredible awareness can overstimulate us, leading to apathy and disconnectedness, but it can also help bolster change and create new ways of thinking. We are the sole species on Earth with an adroit control of technology. When you think about it, technology is really what makes us human. So let’s do what we do best and use our wonderful technological capabilities to further our own humanity.








